Wives And Partners Of Sex Addicts – What They Want You To Know

As a life and recovery coach working with betrayed women, particularly those in relationships with porn or sex addicts, I am keenly aware that this is an issue which is both overlooked for the majority and misunderstood in many ways. I know that there are many, many women out there who have these issues but don’t know where to turn for help, who feel like they can’t tell, out of fear of exposing their partners or being judged as inadequate partners. If that’s you this article is for you… I personally interact with hundreds of women on a regular basis

HuffPost Blog – The Other Side of the Porn Debate: A Wife’s Perspective

Internet pornography and its effects are a pretty hot topic right now with the debate raging over whether internet porn can lead to addiction or not. There are some BIG voices in the debate with a recent article from Pamela Anderson and the ‘coming out’ of Terry Crews. Organisations like Fight the New Drug post up hundreds of photos a month of people ‘repping the movement’, wearing T-shirts emblazoned with the message PORN KILLS LOVE. It seems that everyone is talking about this issue and they all have their own opinions about the suitability of porn use in the 21st

Anger: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly!

ANGRY! That’s how I feel! A-N-G-R-Y!!!!! Wow! I remember that feeling of utter RAGE I experienced on finding out about the lies, the deceptions, the deliberate attempts to cover up the truth! If your partner is an adulterer, sex or porn addict or engaged in any secretive sexual behaviour, I know you know what I mean! Anger is a totally normal and valid response to the betrayal you have been subjected to and you have every right to be angry, right? Right. But staying angry comes at a cost. I have heard too many women talk about the feeling of

Am I crazy?! What is a ‘normal’ response to finding out my partner has a porn/sex addiction?

‘I’m going CRAZY! Whats WRONG with me!’. If I had a pound for every woman I had heard say something like that after discovering their partners secret sexual behaviours I would never need to work another day! Discovering that your husband or partner has a secret sexual life, whether that’s porn, chat sites, other women or even prostitutes and escorts, can be an utterly devastating experience, it was for me! So many emotions begin to whirl around in a roller coaster that can last for weeks and months. So what is a ‘normal response to finding out? How do I